Relationship Matters -part 1

I really want to bring this relationship talk down to the level of this present generation and that's because, this present generation are no longer interested in relationships that lead them to their marriages and that probably doesn't exclude me. Everyone just wanna have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Before I continue, I want you to know that emotions play a big role in the concentration to our goals.

If you have a bad emotion, it will deeply affect your focus on pursuing your goal and that's because your emotion is like a shelter to your mind, heart and brain and whatever goes wrong with the outside will surely affect the inside so you need to keep your emotions good by being with the right person.

They are 3 forms of relationships but here am talking about the relationship that exist between two opposite sex and I define it as the ultimate or extreme closeness that exist between a male and a female where is love and trust for the purpose of sharing ideas, helping one another for which they are tagged boyfriend and girlfriend.

For this post , I will like to talk about those who are eligible for a relationship because not just anyone is right for a relationship.

Being in a relationship is not a must do thing, you only need it when you feel you need it and you are ready for it. 

Carefully understand these points below. Who are those eligible for a relationship:

1. It is only meant for those with matured minds

A mind that is matured is not determined by the age of a person or status. What then is a matured mind? A matured mind is a mind of a person

• who can tolerate other people
• who is full of love for others
• who knows how to respect others
• who places a high value on people

It's your job and only yours to examine yourself if you have a matured mind. Having a matured mind is gonna help sustain a relationship when crisis and misunderstanding come.

     2. It is only meant for those who can forgive

Anyone who cannot forgive cannot be in a good relationship because there will definitely will ups and downs, crisis, disappointments, there will be fuck ups but it takes a person with a forgiving spirit to pardon and forget every mistake your partner makes. So without having the act of forgiveness, your relationship will surely break.

Quick notice: Check the very bottom of this post for my contact details, I will love to answer your questions.

      3. It is only meant for those who can trust

Apart from love, if there is any thing that can guarantee a good relationship then it's trust. It's true Love is the beginning of every relationship but trust confirms a good relationship. I will explain better.

Love means to have a strong affection for someone, it also means to be strongly attracted to someone WHILE Trust means to have confidence in someone or to rely on someone. When you don't trust your partner, then your relationship will rust. When you don't trust your partner, it means you can't believe him/her, it means you can't confidently boast about him/her, it means you can't rely and hope on him/her and what is a relationship without trust, when you can't believe each other. If there is no trust, there will surely be jealousy.

     4. It is only meant for those who can combine his/her                Primary and most Prioritized Ambition(s) with                      affections

As interesting and loving a relationship can be, it can destroy or terminate the laid down destiny of a person. This is what I mean, remember when I started in the first paragraph, I clearly made mention that emotions play a big role in the concentration to one's goal.
One day, I was eating jollof rice and beef well also with one Hollandia yohgurt to take with it. When I was eating, I wasn't enjoying the taste of the jollof rice alone, so I decided to sip a little of the yoghurt along with every one or two spoons of the rice and I enjoyed it that way. Then I said to myself

"Being in a relationship should not be like a change of meal, it should only be like a dessert to your meal."

 It's sounds funny because when i wrote it down, it sounded dumb and funny but it's true and am serious. The meal here is your main goal, you can't afford to swap your goal for a relationship, it is not something any reasonable fellow should do.

     5. It is only meant for those without any sexual urge

It is very unwise for a person with sexual urge to enter a relationship. And having sexual urge is not a disease, it is an addicted habit and can be controlled but not when you are in a relationship, it will only get worse. Don't say, you will be calm when you enter a relationship, it's a big lie. When you have urge for sex or things close to sex, you are not yet eligible for a relationship because there is high tendency for you to be dissatisfied with the reactions of your partner OR high tendency that whoever you want to date doesn't submit to any of your sexual approaches and it will therefore to lead to several break-ups and jumping from one relationship to another.

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Well at this point, I want to take a break, these are not all but these are my best although I would have mentioned that it is only meant for those who can love but I realised there can never be a relationship without love, whether it is love at first sight or deep love.

In the next post I will be explaining two types of relationships but for now I will love to entertain as many questions as possible. Check below on how to reach me.

Please, I will really like to entertain your questions before the next post. You can reach me through my WhatsApp number +2348069118743 or through my email at doc.simi4@gmail.com
I promise to reply in a gifty. I appreciate for your time. See you in the next post